High school survival guide #2- How to talk to your crush

High school survival guide #2- How to talk to your crush

I decided to do this because well I thought this might actually help my fellow wandering souls.

Admit it or not we all have that special someone, or whatever you call him/her. Inspiration? That person im stalking? Crush? And sometimes when we talk to them or heck even go near them ,its like we lose all our mental abilities to think.

You know its true. Don’t even pretend to deny it because hun, if you haven’t had a problem with this touchy subject you wouldn’t be here.

Okay so lets start of by asking ourselves this. Do I really want to talk to them?

Yes-> well then good for you. You have the guts to admit that and lets get started!
no-> grow a pair! Its not the end of the world!

Step  #1- Man up!

Man up and Gather up all your courage and walk up to them. A simple ‘Hi’ could be all it takes to engage into a conversation. It might not engage quickly but it will engage sooner or later. Trust Me. I talk from experience. You’ll never actually know, if you never try. Try. Just try. Your crush is not a man eater is she/he? If not then theres nothing to be afraid of.  Its not like he/she is gonna eat you or kill for that matter.

Step #2- Stalk and investigate.

This is another way to engage a conversation with them. Find out what he/she is interested in, and discuss them. Or better yet, get into them yourself. Its bound to create a special connection because you both have something in common.
For example: Your crush likes to ride bicycles
your action: learn to ride bicycles and “run into” him/her then talk about it.

Step #3- Do not lose your cool

Don’t lose your cool, just imagine talking to your friend, however this is your crush you might want to impress them a bit. Just don’t do something pathetic that will embarrass and scar you for life. For instance, peeing your pants, spitting at them while talking, etc.  Keep calm and just talk like you normally do.

Step #4- Make yourself likable

Smile, talk with class, figure out what they look for in a friend, and be that. Don’t be too weird, don’t be too biotchy because no one likes that. Actually blurt out honest opinions and don’t worry about them not agreeing with you, because its normal. Itll be weird if you always keep agreeing with them.

Step #5- Be friends!

This will make starting conversations and talking a lot easier. If your friends then you two will be comfortable with each other and it wouldn’t be awkward because its basically what friends do. If theyre comfortable, they’ll open up to you more easily, hence, gaining their trust. Don’t be afraid to give them advice or help them out when they have a problem.

But this step also has its con’s. Be careful because you might just end up in the “FRIENDZONE.” *CUE dark music here* And only a few get out. So beware.

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That ends my little tips and steps little jedi’s. I hope the next time you come to my blog you have already successfully talked to your crush. Message me if you did, because I will be one proud mama if it’ll work on you.

If it didn’t, what can I say results may vary………..

I bid you farewell little jedi’s. it is exactly 1:45 as we speak and im planning on staying up all night. just a little up date about yours truly.

Okay so this is goodbye. Till my next post. Stay awesome.

just a valfre work of art im irevocably obssesed with 

~TheKxx